Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Kuasa Nasihat

Assalamualaikum.

“Kau tak payah nak lorat nasihat orang, kau sendiri tu pun tak betul, ada hati nak betulkan orang ke brader? Think about yourself before the others bro!”

Ayat ni kira ayat paling cliché, paling biasa kita dengar kalau sesorang tu try bagi nasihat. This is bad, benda ni perlu diubah, sangat perlu diubah. Islam sangat galakkan kita untuk saling nasihat-menasihati, highly recommended katanya pasal Islam adalah agama yang harmoni. Its not all about ‘aku aku, engkau engkau’.

Actually for me, semua orang, ya, semua orang ada hak untuk bagi nasihat. Tak kisahlah sebaik mana or seburuk mana orang tu. Tau kenapa? Pasal aku percaya ada satu kuasa disebalik ‘kegiatan’ nasihat menasihati ni. Certain orang akan cakap, “aku ni tak layak nak bagi nasihat, aku pun tak betul, mana orang nak dengar nasihat aku”. Salah tu salah. Tak semestinya kena jadi orang yang 100% perfect sempurna untuk bagi nasihat. Tak percaya?

Okay macam ni, bila seseorang yang ‘kurang baik’ ni bagi nasihat kat orang lain, sebenarnya dalam masa yang sama dia meningkatkan motivasi dalam diri dia tanpa disedari. This is based from my observation and experience. Aku selalu jadi fasiltator untuk kecemerlangan dekat sekolah-sekolah, tak kisahlah sekolah menengah or rendah. Then time jadi fasi, of course kita akan motivate dorang, nasihat dorang untuk buat itu ini, rajin belajar, hormat parents, study and ajar segala yang positive walhal yang sebenarnya yang fasi ni sendiri pun bukanlah orang yang hebat, belajar pun malas, kelas pun kadang-kadang ponteng (haha kantoi).

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Tapi budak-budak tu bukan tau, and they will do just as you said. Then nanti kita yang tukang bagi nasihat ni pulak akan terfikir, “isyy..aku yang dok suruh budak-budak ni jadi rajin, apa segala, tapi aku sendiri pemalas, macam mana ni?”. See benda tu reflect kat kita yang kurang baik ni. dan mungkin sikit demi sikit kita akan ikut ‘nasihat’ kita sendiri yang kita bagi kat orang tu. Nampak tak kuasanya kat situ? Budak yang yang kita bagi nasihat tu dapat input, and kita yang tukang menasihat ni pun terasa seolah-olah macam perli diri sendiri pulak, dan sikit-sikit ikut nasihat sendiri tu. haha nampak kelakar tapi its real.

Samalah jugak contohnya kalau kita ni kira orang yang solat lah, tapi kadang-kadang tu terleka, adelah tertinggal sekali-sekala, tapi cuba nak nasihat kawan kita ni yang hampeh langsung tak solat. Then dalam kita ajak dia tu, lama-lama takkan kita sikit pun tak fikir, “aku ye ye ajak dia ni solat, padahal solat aku ni pun kadang-kadang tinggal jugak”. So from there maybe kita akan sikit-sikit improve solat kita and sampai tahap ta-da! Sempurna terus. ahah :)

So who say only perfect peoples can give advices? Yang kat atas ni just contoh yang simple untuk nak bagi korang paham apa aku try sampaikan even actually I’m not really sure if u guys can get the idea of what I’m trying to say. haha. Tapi harapnya anda fahamlah :p

Senang ceritanya, everyone deserve to give advice, semua boleh saling nasihat-menasihati, because I believe, bila kita yang kurang sempurna ni try bagi nasihat kat orang, ia seolah-olah macam kita perli balik diri kita sendiri, dan dari situ kita akan terikut nasihat kita sendiri and try to improve ourselves. Lets together be a better muslim ^_^v

 

7 comments:

krunch2sa said...

saya lg suka ditegur drpd dibiarkan trus lalai...sbb bila org tu tegur that means they still care kan? so...yeah ^^

erry edz said...

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wisata bakti alam said...


kunjungan gan,bagi - bagi motivasi
Hal mudah akan terasa sulit jika yg pertama dipikirkan adalah kata SULIT.Yakinlah bahwa kita memiliki kemampuan dan kekuatan.
ditunggu kunjungan baliknya yaa :)

wisata bakti alam said...


kunjungan gan,bagi - bagi motivasi
semoga bisa jadi semangat
Hal mudah akan terasa sulit jika yg pertama dipikirkan adalah kata SULIT.Yakinlah bahwa kita memiliki kemampuan dan kekuatan.
ditunggu kunjungan baliknya yaa :)

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